The Mental sicknesses of Wife in general.

                      Mental Sickness of a woman .

 

1.  It  appears that , she nourishes her physical illness .     Y

2.  Her ability to perform images either visual or verbal is very poor .    N

3.  When there are a number of tasks ahead to be performed, she can’t   Y

      prioritize.

4.  She has tendency to distort or to twist every matter.                            Y

5.   She ignores important things and unnecessarily gives importance to

       trifles. At times she makes a trifle an issue .                                        Y

6.  She knows names of a number of ailments ( not Techno-medical  but

      in vogue )  and the idea that she will fall ill of them is deeply rooted in

      her mind . She has become over-cautious .                                           Y

7.  Her power of observation is very poor .                                               N

8.  Her judgement capacity is poor .                                                        Y

9.  Her general knowledge is very poor .                                                  Y

10.                    Her capacity of grasping is poor .                                              Y

11.                    She has no patience.                                                                   Y

12.                    Her forethoughts are based on wrong assumptions.                  Y

13.                     Her behavior is bizarre.                                                           Y

14.                    There is no discipline or regularity in her behavior . She doesn’t like to follow discipline. She has not formed any discipline  for herself .Y

15.                    She lacks aesthetic sense. She hasn’t proficiency in any art .        Y

16.                    There is inconsistency in her day-to-day behaviour (no logical consistency).                                                                                            Y

17.                    She has a habit not to accept anything stated by others, she will contradict or refute everything.  She will misinterpret everything.       Y

18.                    There is no leniency in her speech , actions or behaviour . Her tone is harsh.                                                                                            Y

19.         She is short of hearing. But she feels that, the other person cannot hear        what she says and shouts with wrath or talks emphatically.                      Y

20.                    She readily harms the sentiments of others or makes sarcastic remarks, but doesn’t have a sense of guilt.                                             Y

21.        Even in normal chatting she will feel that, there is an allegation against her and it should be defended.                                                                Y

22.                    There is no cordiality or harmony in her talk. She is furious.     Y     

23.                     She cannot carry out her works systematically or sequentially. She cannot plan cuisine, domestic or household works, let alone works in any office or other outdoor works.                                            Y

24.        She smells odors that are not there e.g. at times she doubts that the Gas Cylinder is leaking. Spurious olfactory sensations are perceived by her. Similarly, at sometimes she tastes garlic which is not there in the food.                                                                                                                           Y

25.                    She doesn’t sing ever like common man nor laugh at humour. She laughs only at cheap jokes. She has no interest in music or humor .    N

26.                    There is no coherence or relevance in her cognition, emotion and                          action.   She herself will say something and next moment she will say quite different.                                                                                     Y

27.                    She is not accommodative. She is obstinate and opinionated.     Y

28.                    All her views are subjective, opinionated and prejudiced.          Y

29.                    Her opinions and views about past and future are pessimistic.  Y

30.                    Many times, her talk is not realistic but fictitious. She will tell something to one person and quite different to another person.         Y

31.                    She often uses colloquial or stereotype language in the statement she is making without thinking whether it conveys the thought she wants to express or not.                                                                          Y

32.                    During conversation with anyone she repeats one statement many times for no purpose.                                                                         Y

33.                    Her habit is to blow her own trumpet and to denounce others (not all).                                                                                                             Y

34.                    Even in cases when a final decision is taken by her individually or jointly, she will not adhere to it and will change it later on.                Y

35.                    Many times it appears as if she has exiled common sense and her behavior is idiosyncratic.                                                                      Y

36.                    She hardly completes the work taken in hand in all respects at a time. She leaves the work unfinished and turns on to other.               Y

37.                    There is no agility , promptness or precision with her.                  Y

38.        When we are talking on some subject, she will abruptly talk on some other matter remotely concerned with the subject. Similarly, she will not give answer straightway to the question asked but something else remotely related to the question.                                                                            Y

39.                    She perpetually talks vague. From her talk it becomes difficult to understand what exactly she wants to say. She will never talk specifically.                                                                                                Y

40.                    She gives instructions even to adults, as given to a naughty child.                                                                                                             Y

41.                    She has her own philosophy, quite different from universal one.  She justifies her statements, actions as per her own personal logic.  Y

42.                    She uses inaccurate words / phrases in her talk.  When pointed out, she will justify about its correctness and will blame the listener for not understanding the meaning (as conceived by her).                     Y

43.                    She doesn’t know categorization of any matter. Thereby confusion is aroused.                                                                        Y

44.                    She is fully superstitious.                                                        Y

45.                     She has unrealistic faith and powers in Swamis, Buwa’s etc. She believes that they only can favor her.                                               Y

46.                    In the narrow passages in home if she is walking ahead with the support of a stick putting forward a foot slowly, she will not give space to the person coming from behind by budging aside.                       Y

47.                     Backbiting some lady is the main item, while she is chitchatting with anybody. Similarly to condemn and to criticize husbands is her another favorite item of discussion.                                                      Y

48.                     While speaking she will always use pronouns –‘ Vmooooooooo’ ‘ Vr ’ ‘ hm’ ‘ hr’ etc. without first mentioning proper nouns about whom she is speaking.                                                                                 Y

49.                    She has habit of talking loudly with no one in particular.       Y

50.                    There is scorn or hatred about all, particularly for husband. Y

51.                    She always thinks that she has said something which actually she has not said at all. But she will make allegations that the other person has deliberately no heard her.